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Christmas Cards
[Alternative PC Title: Holiday Cards] ML and I have very different patterns of card sending. She sends out a few cards with long handwritten personal messages to a handful of friends with whom she is not in touch the rest of the year. I send out a bunch of cards (about 40) to people I may or may not have been in touch with over the year, but whose friendship I still wish to acknowledge. I usually don't include that much of a personal nature, beyond the signature and maybe a brief greeting.
I think of these cards as a way of saying to those I haven't seen or talked to in a while, "Hey, we're still here, you're still there, we haven't forgotten about you." Sort of place holders in our relationship, a relationship that may or may not get back to the front burner some day.
Some reciprocate, some don't. I always try to send out more than I receive, and usually succeed if you don't count the cards from politicians, stock brokers, car dealers, etc. I don't always get them out in time for the recipients to actually receive them by Christmas Day. This year, for instance, I just got them to the PO in time for a Christmas Eve postmark.
So, my question is, what do Christmas cards mean to you? Both the ones you send and those you receive?
December 27, 2004 in Personal | Permalink
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Got your Christmas card today! Glad to see that we are on the same wavelength on this. Keep em coming. With a few close friends from 25 years ago (i.e. college friends) the only contact that we have had has been the annual card. Each year I look forward to receiving the card, knowing that the frienship is renewed for another year.
Posted by: Bob | Dec 28, 2004 9:30:23 PM